by Catherine Hoffman
Kaser, M.A.
It is natural for
students to get angry
sometimes; however, when
they also have difficulty
controlling their anger, the
academic and social outcomes
suffer. These students are
often perceived as hostile,
have fewer goals, are at
risk for expulsion or
dropping out of school,
experience lower academic
performance, have higher
rates of juvenile
delinquency and adult
criminal activity, and have
low self esteem (Blum, 2001;
Robinson, Smith, & Miller,
2002; Tamaki, 1994). Many
teachers are finding that
teaching anger management
skills to students is
effective in helping them to
regulate their behavior and
deal with their feelings of
anger when they surface
(Rosenberg, Wilson, Maheady,
& Sindelar, 1997;
Rutherford, Quinn, & Mathur,
1996). Acquiring these
skills makes schools safer
for everyone and helps these
students to control their
inappropriate behavior and,
in turn, more socially
accepted by others and
themselves (Robinson, Smith,
& Miller, 2002; Tamaki,
1994).
Anger is one of the most
difficult feelings for
students to manage
(Phillips-Hershey & Kanagy,
1996). Students may get
angry because they are
frustrated or anxious, feel
a lack of control over their
environments, or do not know
how to express themselves
effectively in other ways (Brophy,
1996; Burden, 2003; Gootman,
2001; Rutherford, Quinn, &
Mathur, 1996; Tamaki, 1994;
Wilde, 2002). These students
often have trouble
accurately perceiving social
situations and their
misperceptions may provoke
anger (Brophy, 1996;
Goldstein, 1999). Many anger
management researchers
suggest first understanding
how a student is thinking
and feeling (Gootman, 2001;
Kauffman, Mostert, Trent, &
Hallahan, 1998) and then
addressing the causes of a
student’s anger, if possible
(Blum, 2001). Since the
causes of anger cannot
always be prevented, it is
important that students
learn methods to manage
their anger effectively. The
goal of any anger management
program is to teach students
to be able to identify when
they are angry, develop
management strategies for
dealing with their anger,
and express their feelings
more appropriately (Gootman,
2001; Phillips-Hershey &
Kanagy, 1996). This can be
accomplished by integrating
anger management instruction
into the regular curriculum,
choosing a packaged program
of instruction, or using a
multifaceted approach that
includes an anger management
curriculum as part of a
multi-faceted intervention
for students (Guthrie,
2002). A number of
instructional programs
contain a combination of
cognitive and behavioral
approaches to teach students
a sequence of steps toward
monitoring their thinking
about their perceptions of
situations and feelings of
anger and controlling their
angry behaviors– using
problem solving skills and
appropriate social skills (Brophy,
1996; Kellner, Bry, &
Colletti, 2002; Kerr &
Nelson, 1998; O’Donnell &
White, 2001; Robinson,
Smith, & Miller, 2002;
Rutherford, Quinn, & Mathur,
1996; Tamaki, 1994).
Goldstein’s PREPARE
curriculum is perhaps the
best-known packaged anger
management program (1999).
The first part of PREPARE
emphasizes teaching skills
and behaviors that are more
appropriate than angry or
aggressive responses. First,
a teacher models the correct
use of target skills that
the students need to learn
or improve, such as dealing
with an accusation. Second,
students practice the steps
that comprise the skill they
saw modeled through
role-play situations. Next,
the teacher or leader
provides feedback to the
students about their use of
the skills in the role-play,
which provides both guidance
and reinforcement for using
the skill. Finally, students
are given homework to
practice the skill to help
them transfer the newly
acquired skills to natural
settings.
The PREPARE curriculum
also outlines a number of
steps that students can use
to understand how they
perceive situations that
make them angry and how to
remind themselves to think
through alternate ways to
perceive that situation and
control their anger. Steps
to understanding and
controlling anger include:
(a) learning how to think
through what triggered a
conflict, (b) how the
student responded, and (c)
the consequences of that
response. Next, students
learn to understand what
triggers them to become
angry and how to respond to
those triggers through
relaxing, thinking about
more positive things, and
reminding themselves to
control their anger. They
next learn to evaluate how
they respond to situations
that make them angry when
they use these techniques
and think ahead to evaluate
consequences to getting
angry or controlling their
anger using alternative
behaviors. The method in
which these steps are taught
is similar to that used for
teaching more prosocial
behaviors described above;
steps are modeled, students
role-play them, they receive
feedback, and practice the
new skills for homework.
Rutherford, Quinn, and
Mathur (1996) summarize the
steps for teaching anger
management to students that
are common to the PREPARE
curriculum and other
effective anger management
programs (Burden, 2003;
Committee for Children,
1992; Kerr & Nelson, 1998;
Peterson, 1995; Robinson,
Smith, & Miller, 2002;
Wilde, 2002):
1. Convince students of
their need to change their
anger-management style.
2. Make students aware of
the personal signals that
indicate increased anger
arousal.
3. Teach students self-talk
techniques.
4. Teach problem solving
skills.
5. Teach relaxation skills.
Effective programs
combine a variety of
teaching techniques
including direct
instruction, feedback and
reinforcement (Rutherford,
Quinn, & Mathur, 1996).
These techniques can be
presented in small groups or
as part of a classwide or
schoolwide curriculum (Blum,
2001; Cangelosi, 2000;
Kellner, Bry, & Colletti,
2002; Phillips-Hershey &
Kanagy, 1996; Wilde, 2002).
If these techniques are used
over time, students can
become more effective at
monitoring and controlling
their anger in provoking
situations (Robinson, Smith,
& Miller, 2002; Rutherford,
Quinn, & Mathur, 1996).